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my friends: I hope you have a good day my friends
 my friends: I hope you have a good day my friends

I hope you have a good day my friends

my friends: Stay thirsty my friends.
 my friends: Stay thirsty my friends.

Stay thirsty my friends.

my friends: Stay thirsty my friends.
 my friends: Stay thirsty my friends.

Stay thirsty my friends.

my friends: what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making THANK YOU I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.” The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents. When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious. God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent “I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.” I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future. Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that. My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad. To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time. It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.
 my friends: what-even-is-thiss:

bobcatdump:

jaskiegg:

mellomaia:

aphony-cree:

beyoncescock:

gahdamnpunk:

Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making


THANK YOU

I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.”
The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner
If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents 
People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings

Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents.
When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. 
I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.



God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent

“I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this



The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. 
A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.”
I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future.
Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that.
My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad.
To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time.
It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.

what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychologica...

my friends: justcatposts: “My cat Blackberry has done this before but my friends told me it was really impressive and I should share..” (Source)
 my friends: justcatposts:

“My cat Blackberry has done this before but my friends told me it was really impressive and I should share..” (Source)

justcatposts: “My cat Blackberry has done this before but my friends told me it was really impressive and I should share..” (Source)

my friends: Trees are my friends by teekay_1994 MORE MEMES
 my friends: Trees are my friends by teekay_1994
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Trees are my friends by teekay_1994 MORE MEMES

my friends: My friends and I being sore two days after our first gym workout in months. Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co/ #fitness #motivation #meme #workout #gymaholic
 my friends: My friends and I being sore two days after our first gym workout in months.  Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co/  #fitness #motivation #meme #workout #gymaholic

My friends and I being sore two days after our first gym workout in months. Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co/ #fitness #motivati...

my friends: And that my friends concludes the end of 2020
 my friends: And that my friends concludes the end of 2020

And that my friends concludes the end of 2020

my friends: And that my friends concludes the end of 2020
 my friends: And that my friends concludes the end of 2020

And that my friends concludes the end of 2020

my friends: Two foxes have decided to take advantage of the UK lockdown and use my friends garden to raise their cubs. (Source)
 my friends: Two foxes have decided to take advantage of the UK lockdown and use my friends garden to raise their cubs. (Source)

Two foxes have decided to take advantage of the UK lockdown and use my friends garden to raise their cubs. (Source)

my friends: And this my friends is the meaning of “Reddit”
 my friends: And this my friends is the meaning of “Reddit”

And this my friends is the meaning of “Reddit”

my friends: And this my friends is the meaning of “Reddit” by PeteGameDev MORE MEMES
 my friends: And this my friends is the meaning of “Reddit” by PeteGameDev
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And this my friends is the meaning of “Reddit” by PeteGameDev MORE MEMES

my friends: My friends let me say it all the time! by KendricksGhostwriter MORE MEMES
 my friends: My friends let me say it all the time! by KendricksGhostwriter
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My friends let me say it all the time! by KendricksGhostwriter MORE MEMES

my friends: When I tell my friends that I never skip cardio. Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co #fitness #motivation #workout #gymaholic #meme
 my friends: When I tell my friends that I never skip cardio.  Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co  #fitness #motivation #workout #gymaholic #meme

When I tell my friends that I never skip cardio. Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co #fitness #motivation #workout #gymaholic #meme

my friends: my friends work requires a doctors note if you call in sick
 my friends: my friends work requires a doctors note if you call in sick

my friends work requires a doctors note if you call in sick

my friends: my friends work requires a doctors note if you call in sick
 my friends: my friends work requires a doctors note if you call in sick

my friends work requires a doctors note if you call in sick

my friends: ginger-ale-official: nunyabizni:Boys will be boys I’m going to do this to every one of my friends when this virus goes extinct
 my friends: ginger-ale-official:

nunyabizni:Boys will be boys


I’m going to do this to every one of my friends when this virus goes extinct

ginger-ale-official: nunyabizni:Boys will be boys I’m going to do this to every one of my friends when this virus goes extinct

my friends: the times where I had no worries and just played video games with my friends by _jun_yi_ MORE MEMES
 my friends: the times where I had no worries and just played video games with my friends by _jun_yi_
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the times where I had no worries and just played video games with my friends by _jun_yi_ MORE MEMES

my friends: My friends aren’t even this nice
 my friends: My friends aren’t even this nice

My friends aren’t even this nice

my friends: Very sadness my friends
 my friends: Very sadness my friends

Very sadness my friends

my friends: Only big brain will get it (my friends didn’t)
 my friends: Only big brain will get it (my friends didn’t)

Only big brain will get it (my friends didn’t)

my friends: My friends and I pretending to do a group workout online so we can eat more. Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co #fitness #motivation #workout #gymaholic #meme
 my friends: My friends and I pretending to do a group workout online so we can eat more.  Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co  #fitness #motivation #workout #gymaholic #meme

My friends and I pretending to do a group workout online so we can eat more. Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co #fitness #motivati...

my friends: Me to my friends: I’m gonna get lean with or without quarantine Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co #fitness #motivation #meme #workout #gymaholic
 my friends: Me to my friends: I’m gonna get lean with or without quarantine  Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co  #fitness #motivation #meme #workout #gymaholic

Me to my friends: I’m gonna get lean with or without quarantine Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co #fitness #motivation #meme #wor...

my friends: Me during lockdown when all my friends play xbox, but I’m a ps4 player. Advice! by LordCucumber1996 MORE MEMES
 my friends: Me during lockdown when all my friends play xbox, but I’m a ps4 player. Advice! by LordCucumber1996
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Me during lockdown when all my friends play xbox, but I’m a ps4 player. Advice! by LordCucumber1996 MORE MEMES

my friends: Me and most of my friends
 my friends: Me and most of my friends

Me and most of my friends

my friends: My friends dog died today, she made this meme and I wanted to blow it up for her because she doesn’t have Reddit by Asian-Freak-20 MORE MEMES
 my friends: My friends dog died today, she made this meme and I wanted to blow it up for her because she doesn’t have Reddit by Asian-Freak-20
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My friends dog died today, she made this meme and I wanted to blow it up for her because she doesn’t have Reddit by Asian-Freak-20 MORE M...

my friends: My friends dog died today, she made this meme and I wanted to blow it up for her because she doesn’t have Reddit
 my friends: My friends dog died today, she made this meme and I wanted to blow it up for her because she doesn’t have Reddit

My friends dog died today, she made this meme and I wanted to blow it up for her because she doesn’t have Reddit

my friends: it-mii: pancakeruby: me and my friends dancing to “mr. brightside”  If this ain’t me
 my friends: it-mii:
pancakeruby:

me and my friends dancing to “mr. brightside” 

If this ain’t me

it-mii: pancakeruby: me and my friends dancing to “mr. brightside”  If this ain’t me

my friends: Me when my friends ask me to give them home workout ideas. Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co #fitness #motivation #workout #gymaholic #meme
 my friends: Me when my friends ask me to give them home workout ideas.  Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co  #fitness #motivation #workout #gymaholic #meme

Me when my friends ask me to give them home workout ideas. Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co #fitness #motivation #workout #gymah...

my friends: A stranger took a picture of me wearing the proper PPE for a trip to Walmart for just the essentials. It made the rounds on Facebook before one of my friends sent it to me.
 my friends: A stranger took a picture of me wearing the proper PPE for a trip to Walmart for just the essentials. It made the rounds on Facebook before one of my friends sent it to me.

A stranger took a picture of me wearing the proper PPE for a trip to Walmart for just the essentials. It made the rounds on Facebook befo...

my friends: A stranger took a picture of me wearing the proper PPE for a trip to Walmart for just the essentials. It made the rounds on Facebook before one of my friends sent it to me.
 my friends: A stranger took a picture of me wearing the proper PPE for a trip to Walmart for just the essentials. It made the rounds on Facebook before one of my friends sent it to me.

A stranger took a picture of me wearing the proper PPE for a trip to Walmart for just the essentials. It made the rounds on Facebook befo...

my friends: A stranger took a picture of me wearing the proper PPE for a trip to Walmart for just the essentials. It made the rounds on Facebook before one of my friends sent it to me.
 my friends: A stranger took a picture of me wearing the proper PPE for a trip to Walmart for just the essentials. It made the rounds on Facebook before one of my friends sent it to me.

A stranger took a picture of me wearing the proper PPE for a trip to Walmart for just the essentials. It made the rounds on Facebook befo...

my friends: awesomacious: I love these types of talks with my friends
 my friends: awesomacious:

I love these types of talks with my friends

awesomacious: I love these types of talks with my friends

my friends: I love these types of talks with my friends
 my friends: I love these types of talks with my friends

I love these types of talks with my friends

my friends: I love these types of talks with my friends
 my friends: I love these types of talks with my friends

I love these types of talks with my friends

my friends: I wish me and my friends had this level of coordination
 my friends: I wish me and my friends had this level of coordination

I wish me and my friends had this level of coordination

my friends: I wish me and my friends had this level of coordination
 my friends: I wish me and my friends had this level of coordination

I wish me and my friends had this level of coordination

my friends: R/Minecraft deemed this “too boring” so hopefully you guys will like the house me and my friends made.
 my friends: R/Minecraft deemed this “too boring” so hopefully you guys will like the house me and my friends made.

R/Minecraft deemed this “too boring” so hopefully you guys will like the house me and my friends made.

my friends: When my friends ask me to walk around the city two days after leg day. Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co #fitness #motivation #meme #workout #gymaholic
 my friends: When my friends ask me to walk around the city two days after leg day.  Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co  #fitness #motivation #meme #workout #gymaholic

When my friends ask me to walk around the city two days after leg day. Gymaholic App: https://www.gymaholic.co #fitness #motivation #me...

my friends: [OC] My friends, you bow to no one.
 my friends: [OC] My friends, you bow to no one.

[OC] My friends, you bow to no one.

my friends: When my friends say they want to get serious about fitness, but they never listen to my advice. Gymahohlic App: https://www.gymaholic.co #fitness #meme #motivation #workout #gym #gymaholic
 my friends: When my friends say they want to get serious about fitness, but they never listen to my advice.  Gymahohlic App: https://www.gymaholic.co  #fitness #meme #motivation #workout #gym #gymaholic

When my friends say they want to get serious about fitness, but they never listen to my advice. Gymahohlic App: https://www.gymaholic.co...

my friends: Coaster at my friends house :)
 my friends: Coaster at my friends house :)

Coaster at my friends house :)