Im So
Im So

Im So

Types Of
Types Of

Types Of

Forgetfulness
Forgetfulness

Forgetfulness

The Door
The Door

The Door

Picture Of
Picture Of

Picture Of

Waiting For
Waiting For

Waiting For

Actually
Actually

Actually

We Get It
We Get It

We Get It

And
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Tonights My Girlfriend
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For Me: No vacation for me.
For Me: No vacation for me.

No vacation for me.

For Me: what-even-is-thiss: bobcatdump: jaskiegg: mellomaia: aphony-cree: beyoncescock: gahdamnpunk: Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making THANK YOU I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.” The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents. When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious. God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent “I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.” I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future. Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that. My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad. To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time. It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.
For Me: what-even-is-thiss:

bobcatdump:

jaskiegg:

mellomaia:

aphony-cree:

beyoncescock:

gahdamnpunk:

Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making


THANK YOU

I’ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and “respect for other people’s things.” If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always say “I bought them that toy” or “my sister gave that to them.”
The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner
If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents 
People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. It’s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your child’s belongings

Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but here’s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because I’d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didn’t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents.
When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldn’t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someone’s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, “Oh, my bad,” and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someone’s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. 
I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.



God I’ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent

“I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.”YES this



The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. 
A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandma’s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: “Are you hurt?” and when I apologized profusely she said “I’m just glad you weren’t hurt.”
I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dad’s first response was “Did you get cut?” the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future.
Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest “punishment” from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that.
My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friends’ parents still got mad.
To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didn’t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of “I’m glad you’re safe and I want to help you learn from this.” And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time.
It’s like… we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely.

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For Me: Thanks tinder, you’re always looking out for me.
For Me: Thanks tinder, you’re always looking out for me.

Thanks tinder, you’re always looking out for me.

For Me: For me it was stickers by Meatling_ MORE MEMES
For Me: For me it was stickers by Meatling_
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For me it was stickers by Meatling_ MORE MEMES

For Me: For me it was stickers
For Me: For me it was stickers

For me it was stickers

For Me: It works for me
For Me: It works for me

It works for me

For Me: Yeah…there is a special place in hell for me by HorseGoesMeow MORE MEMES
For Me: Yeah…there is a special place in hell for me by HorseGoesMeow
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Yeah…there is a special place in hell for me by HorseGoesMeow MORE MEMES

For Me: wait for me bro by nordicwow MORE MEMES
For Me: wait for me bro by nordicwow
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wait for me bro by nordicwow MORE MEMES

For Me: Too early for me too
For Me: Too early for me too

Too early for me too

For Me: My boyfriend is taking care of my cat for me. I asked how it was going and he sent me this.
For Me: My boyfriend is taking care of my cat for me. I asked how it was going and he sent me this.

My boyfriend is taking care of my cat for me. I asked how it was going and he sent me this.

For Me: My boyfriend is taking care of my cat for me. I asked how it was going and he sent me this.
For Me: My boyfriend is taking care of my cat for me. I asked how it was going and he sent me this.

My boyfriend is taking care of my cat for me. I asked how it was going and he sent me this.

For Me: A sudden realization for me. by GuiltyUpstairs MORE MEMES
For Me: A sudden realization for me. by GuiltyUpstairs
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A sudden realization for me. by GuiltyUpstairs MORE MEMES

For Me: A sudden realization for me.
For Me: A sudden realization for me.

A sudden realization for me.

For Me: This for me? (via)
For Me: This for me? (via)

This for me? (via)

For Me: Too early for me too
For Me: Too early for me too

Too early for me too

For Me: Too early for me too
For Me: Too early for me too

Too early for me too

For Me: Got removed earlier cause I went over the 5 post limit now that’s a new core memory for me
For Me: Got removed earlier cause I went over the 5 post limit now that’s a new core memory for me

Got removed earlier cause I went over the 5 post limit now that’s a new core memory for me

For Me: Got removed earlier cause I went over the 5 post limit now that’s a new core memory for me by Mizrac_ MORE MEMES
For Me: Got removed earlier cause I went over the 5 post limit now that’s a new core memory for me by Mizrac_
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Got removed earlier cause I went over the 5 post limit now that’s a new core memory for me by Mizrac_ MORE MEMES

For Me: It’s a win win situation for me
For Me: It’s a win win situation for me

It’s a win win situation for me

For Me: I don’t think Tinder has been working out for me lately…
For Me: I don’t think Tinder has been working out for me lately…

I don’t think Tinder has been working out for me lately…

For Me: papersnail: mainbstaysgold: frqnkie: my cat joined my dad and my dog on their morning walk those meows: “wait for me, wait for me!” this video nourishes me
For Me: papersnail:

mainbstaysgold:

frqnkie:

my cat joined my dad and my dog on their morning walk

those meows: “wait for me, wait for me!”

this video nourishes me

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For Me: A lot of people have been asking me what it’s like being on the COVID wards in the hospital, so I figured I’d share what a typical day looks like for me:
For Me: A lot of people have been asking me what it’s like being on the COVID wards in the hospital, so I figured I’d share what a typical day looks like for me:

A lot of people have been asking me what it’s like being on the COVID wards in the hospital, so I figured I’d share what a typical day lo...

For Me: Don’t make it worse for me, gary
For Me: Don’t make it worse for me, gary

Don’t make it worse for me, gary

For Me: laughoutloud-club: 1 life left for me
For Me: laughoutloud-club:

1 life left for me

laughoutloud-club: 1 life left for me

For Me: This line has a 100% success rate for me
For Me: This line has a 100% success rate for me

This line has a 100% success rate for me

For Me: I complained to my gf that it’s snowing in May. She drew this for me.
For Me: I complained to my gf that it’s snowing in May. She drew this for me.

I complained to my gf that it’s snowing in May. She drew this for me.

For Me: badasserywomen: Well i know who i want in my squad for ME: Andromeda. I hope we get one of those alien looking lions too
For Me: badasserywomen:

Well i know who i want in my squad for ME: Andromeda. I hope we get one of those alien looking lions too

badasserywomen: Well i know who i want in my squad for ME: Andromeda. I hope we get one of those alien looking lions too

For Me: Wait for me I have little legs.via @pavlovthecorgi
For Me: Wait for me I have little legs.via @pavlovthecorgi

Wait for me I have little legs.via @pavlovthecorgi

For Me: Fox boy loves his new blanket(Source)
For Me: Fox boy loves his new blanket(Source)

Fox boy loves his new blanket(Source)

For Me: They are looking for me
For Me: They are looking for me

They are looking for me

For Me: It was too much fun for me.. by nanxdini MORE MEMES
For Me: It was too much fun for me.. by nanxdini
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It was too much fun for me.. by nanxdini MORE MEMES

For Me: It was too much fun for me..
For Me: It was too much fun for me..

It was too much fun for me..

For Me: No Sleep for me by RWBYRose1218 MORE MEMES
For Me: No Sleep for me by RWBYRose1218
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No Sleep for me by RWBYRose1218 MORE MEMES

For Me: This toilet paper sculpture that my neighbor printed for me
For Me: This toilet paper sculpture that my neighbor printed for me

This toilet paper sculpture that my neighbor printed for me

For Me: This toilet paper sculpture that my neighbor printed for me
For Me: This toilet paper sculpture that my neighbor printed for me

This toilet paper sculpture that my neighbor printed for me

For Me: This toilet paper sculpture that my neighbor printed for me
For Me: This toilet paper sculpture that my neighbor printed for me

This toilet paper sculpture that my neighbor printed for me

For Me: It’s a pirates life for me
For Me: It’s a pirates life for me

It’s a pirates life for me

For Me: works for me
For Me: works for me

works for me

For Me: It’s a pirates life for me
For Me: It’s a pirates life for me

It’s a pirates life for me

For Me: It’s a pirates life for me
For Me: It’s a pirates life for me

It’s a pirates life for me

For Me: My computer is too intelligent for me
For Me: My computer is too intelligent for me

My computer is too intelligent for me

For Me: Her bio said: “If we can’t have a Nic Cage marathon, then you’re not the man for me.“
For Me: Her bio said: “If we can’t have a Nic Cage marathon, then you’re not the man for me.“

Her bio said: “If we can’t have a Nic Cage marathon, then you’re not the man for me.“