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Be Upset: feniczoroark: 30-minute-memes: Gordon would be upset @randomnightlord Fanfiction suggestion accepted
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30-minute-memes:

Gordon would be upset


@randomnightlord 


Fanfiction suggestion accepted

feniczoroark: 30-minute-memes: Gordon would be upset @randomnightlord Fanfiction suggestion accepted

Be Upset: Gordon would be upset
Be Upset: Gordon would be upset

Gordon would be upset

Be Upset: clockworkrobotic: bigancestorenergy: ouma-anti: whatjordylikes: danielle-mertina: blackqueerblog: Some parents really don’t understand the difference between actual discipline and hurting your kids. This teaches a kid nothing except needing to hide what makes them happy because they’re scared their parents will destroy it. Wow…what a terrible parent. Minecraft is A LOT of work, diligence, and creativity. The parent should have been encouraging that. And why does a 9 year old need to wake up every day at 7 am during a pandemic? What’s wrong with this person? I can foresee an estranged relationship in the future. Because this parent is out of their minds and more interested in exacting punitive control than being a loving caregiver. Y'all wonder why some kids are the way they are? This is it. why on earth does a NINE YEAR OLD CHILD has to wake up at fucking 7 am during a pandemic? also children may require up to TWELVE HOURS of sleep he’s not being defiant—without the threat of a ridiculous and unnatural hour he MUST be awake at he’s actually following his natural circadian rhythm which is actually HEALTHIER for him what they’ve done is broken his trust in a MAJOR way. he does not feel safe or in control. which is why he is refusing meals. honestly? if they keep this behavior up—let alone just not apologizing and finding the save file for his game—he’s gonna develop some dangerous coping skills like yknow. An eating disorder. Dissociation. Self harm. I’m not being hyperbolic. this is literally how it starts. This is the second time this week I’ve seen a story like this (the first being the boyfriend destroying his girlfriend’s AC island over an argument) and it makes me think – how is this ANY different to someone destroying a physical piece of art someone’s made: ripping up their sketchbook, breaking ceramics, cutting up cosplays? If this person had come forward with a question like “my son wouldn’t get out of bed so I broke the birdbox he made” there wouldn’t be ANY question whether this was abusive behaviour. There’s an inherent disconnect with how we talk about the “value” of virtual items/creations in video games: something about the way that these things aren’t tangible in the conventional sense makes them somehow less valuable than something everyone can hold and observe and appreciate. Think about the amount of “funny gamer rage” videos out there that are people upset over losing WoW saves and the likes: game saves are often things people have put hundreds of hours into, they have value to that person and are representative of their own dedication. Hell, I’m really bummed at the moment over not having access to some of my BL2 saves (I can’t travel to get my PS4 from uni), and I know I’d be upset if I lost them forever.  Video games are a massive escape mechanism for a lot of people especially right now, and putting time and effort into particularly building games is a constructive and creative outlet that gives people a feeling of accomplishment (and let’s be real it’s a lot more practical than having a house full of lego). Yet there’s still this weird stigma attached to them, this “it’s just a game” mentality that leads people to be easily dismissive of others’ feelings over losing progress. Destroyed your girlfriend’s AC island, which she put hundreds of hours into building? Whatever, it’s just a game. Deleted your kid’s minecraft file, which he spent an entire year working on? Whatever, it’s just a game, why are you so mad? It’s not a real thing, it’s just some numbers hiding behind fancy computer graphics! Actions like this are intentional, targeted destruction of another person’s property - property they have created themselves -  by an adult who knew what they were doing and we should NOT treat them as anything other than that, regardless of medium.
Be Upset: clockworkrobotic:

bigancestorenergy:

ouma-anti:

whatjordylikes:

danielle-mertina:


blackqueerblog:


Some parents really don’t understand the difference between actual discipline and hurting your kids.

This teaches a kid nothing except needing to hide what makes them happy because they’re scared their parents will destroy it.




Wow…what a terrible parent. Minecraft is A LOT of work, diligence, and creativity. The parent should have been encouraging that. And why does a 9 year old need to wake up every day at 7 am during a pandemic? What’s wrong with this person? 
I can foresee an estranged relationship in the future. Because this parent is out of their minds and more interested in exacting punitive control than being a loving caregiver. 



Y'all wonder why some kids are the way they are? This is it. 

why on earth does a NINE YEAR OLD CHILD has to wake up at fucking 7 am during a pandemic? 

also children may require up to TWELVE HOURS of sleep
he’s not being defiant—without the threat of a ridiculous and unnatural hour he MUST be awake at he’s actually following his natural circadian rhythm which is actually HEALTHIER for him
what they’ve done is broken his trust in a MAJOR way. he does not feel safe or in control. which is why he is refusing meals. 
honestly? if they keep this behavior up—let alone just not apologizing and finding the save file for his game—he’s gonna develop some dangerous coping skills like yknow. An eating disorder. Dissociation. Self harm.
I’m not being hyperbolic. this is literally how it starts.

This is the second time this week I’ve seen a story like this (the first being the boyfriend destroying his girlfriend’s AC island over an argument) and it makes me think – how is this ANY different to someone destroying a physical piece of art someone’s made: ripping up their sketchbook, breaking ceramics, cutting up cosplays? If this person had come forward with a question like “my son wouldn’t get out of bed so I broke the birdbox he made” there wouldn’t be ANY question whether this was abusive behaviour.
There’s an inherent disconnect with how we talk about the “value” of virtual items/creations in video games: something about the way that these things aren’t tangible in the conventional sense makes them somehow less valuable than something everyone can hold and observe and appreciate. Think about the amount of “funny gamer rage” videos out there that are people upset over losing WoW saves and the likes: game saves are often things people have put hundreds of hours into, they have value to that person and are representative of their own dedication. Hell, I’m really bummed at the moment over not having access to some of my BL2 saves (I can’t travel to get my PS4 from uni), and I know I’d be upset if I lost them forever. 
Video games are a massive escape mechanism for a lot of people especially right now, and putting time and effort into particularly building games is a constructive and creative outlet that gives people a feeling of accomplishment (and let’s be real it’s a lot more practical than having a house full of lego). Yet there’s still this weird stigma attached to them, this “it’s just a game” mentality that leads people to be easily dismissive of others’ feelings over losing progress. Destroyed your girlfriend’s AC island, which she put hundreds of hours into building? Whatever, it’s just a game. Deleted your kid’s minecraft file, which he spent an entire year working on? Whatever, it’s just a game, why are you so mad? It’s not a real thing, it’s just some numbers hiding behind fancy computer graphics!
Actions like this are intentional, targeted destruction of another person’s property - property they have created themselves -  by an adult who knew what they were doing and we should NOT treat them as anything other than that, regardless of medium.

clockworkrobotic: bigancestorenergy: ouma-anti: whatjordylikes: danielle-mertina: blackqueerblog: Some parents really don’t under...

Be Upset: If I wasn’t dead inside I might be upset
Be Upset: If I wasn’t dead inside I might be upset

If I wasn’t dead inside I might be upset

Be Upset: sanctuaryforalluniverses: buckysstevie: #bucky is his dark side #he would do everything for him #he can’t lose him again That’s the exact thing. We have two whole movies showing that, for Steve, Bucky being in danger/avenging Bucky is a trump card that overrules literally everyone and everything else (and when it was the WORLD on the other side of the equation in Winter Soldier, he fought just long and just hard enough that he wouldn’t have to make a final, irrevocable choice. Once the world was safe and no longer on the other side of the equation, he stopped fighting because he was now free to make his choice - Bucky). That connection is something that’s clearly very primal and fundamental to Steve, something that I would argue Steve feels makes up a key part of who he is. In CA:TFA, the first time in the whole movie you see real panic on Steve’s face is when that train door slams closed between him and Bucky, suggesting he considered that moment more frightening than, say, being used as a test subject by the U.S. Government. There’s no truly logical reason why Steve didn’t give Peggy his coordinates just before the last crash, but it’s hard to ignore the possibility that, at that point, he didn’t want to be found. There are also several instances throughout both movies where Steve calls forth incredible violence for Bucky’s sake - up until the moment that the Winter Soldier crashed their car, snippets of conversation made it clear that he was still thinking of SHIELD in terms of salvage. Once he realized what they’d done to Bucky, however, he would accept nothing less than their complete and utter destruction. In CA:TFA, the man who “didn’t want to hurt anyone” burned through HYDRA’s HQ without mercy because they were the reason Bucky was “dead.” When he’s dealing with someone who’s hurt Bucky, one of the most basically decent Avengers loses every ounce of his fairness or mercy. Because, when someone attacks such a core part of you, it becomes a battle of life and death. I’ve written before about how the rest of the team might be upset that they’re not being factored in Steve’s head, but the truth is that choosing Bucky is so fundamentally a part of who Steve is as a person that to do otherwise would be in direct opposition to Steve’s core identity. We’ve talked about how Steve seems to have no sense of self-preservation, but his protection of Bucky echoes that primal fight for survival in several ways. You could argue, then, that Steve sees his relationship with Bucky, or the person that he is when he’s with Bucky, as his true “self.” And to protect that, he’ll do whatever he has to. No matter who or what gets in the way.
Be Upset: sanctuaryforalluniverses:

buckysstevie:

#bucky is his dark side #he would do everything for him #he can’t lose him again

That’s the exact thing. We have two whole movies showing that, for Steve, Bucky being in danger/avenging Bucky is a trump card that overrules literally everyone and everything else (and when it was the WORLD on the other side of the equation in Winter Soldier, he fought just long and just hard enough that he wouldn’t have to make a final, irrevocable choice. Once the world was safe and no longer on the other side of the equation, he stopped fighting because he was now free to make his choice - Bucky). 
That connection is something that’s clearly very primal and fundamental to Steve, something that I would argue Steve feels makes up a key part of who he is. In CA:TFA, the first time in the whole movie you see real panic on Steve’s face is when that train door slams closed between him and Bucky, suggesting he considered that moment more frightening than, say, being used as a test subject by the U.S. Government. There’s no truly logical reason why Steve didn’t give Peggy his coordinates just before the last crash, but it’s hard to ignore the possibility that, at that point, he didn’t want to be found. 
There are also several instances throughout both movies where Steve calls forth incredible violence for Bucky’s sake - up until the moment that the Winter Soldier crashed their car, snippets of conversation made it clear that he was still thinking of SHIELD in terms of salvage. Once he realized what they’d done to Bucky, however, he would accept nothing less than their complete and utter destruction. In CA:TFA, the man who “didn’t want to hurt anyone” burned through HYDRA’s HQ without mercy because they were the reason Bucky was “dead.” When he’s dealing with someone who’s hurt Bucky, one of the most basically decent Avengers loses every ounce of his fairness or mercy. 
Because, when someone attacks such a core part of you, it becomes a battle of life and death. I’ve written before about how the rest of the team might be upset that they’re not being factored in Steve’s head, but the truth is that choosing Bucky is so fundamentally a part of who Steve is as a person that to do otherwise would be in direct opposition to Steve’s core identity. We’ve talked about how Steve seems to have no sense of self-preservation, but his protection of Bucky echoes that primal fight for survival in several ways. You could argue, then, that Steve sees his relationship with Bucky, or the person that he is when he’s with Bucky, as his true “self.” 
And to protect that, he’ll do whatever he has to. No matter who or what gets in the way.

sanctuaryforalluniverses: buckysstevie: #bucky is his dark side #he would do everything for him #he can’t lose him again That’s the ex...

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