lobbygrl lazypacific “Imagine you’re at a party A guy offers you a drink You say no He says ‘Come on one drink!’ You say ‘no thanks’ Later he brings you a soda ‘I know you said you didn’t want a drink but I was getting one for myself and you looked thirsty’ For you to refuse at this point makes you the asshole He’s just being nice right? Predators use the social contract and our own good hearts and fear of being rude against us If you drink the drink you’re teaching him that it just takes a little persistence on his part to overcome your ‘no’ If you say ‘Really I appreciate it but no thanks’ and put the drink down and walk away from it you’re the one who looks rude in that moment But the fact is you didn’t ask for the drink and you don’t want the drink and you don’t have to drink it just to make some guy feel validated” —The Art of “No” Jennifer P I’ve never seen this post with the original caption before I thought I loved it simply from the photography but the depth of the meaning behind it… Wow Meme
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